Acceptable and unacceptable flirting behavior
Unacceptable flirting behaviour and how to stop it
So what's acceptable and unacceptable flirting behavior? I believe it depends entirely on the individual you are flirting with. People and cultures differ quite significantly so the best approach is this. Think about flirting like a game of tennis. You need someone to hit a few balls back to see if you are doing things right. You can always test the waters and gauge their reaction. Some girls find touching unacceptable flirting behavior while others do not. Of course it depends on who they are flirting with as well. Best tip is to lean in without actually touching and observe the reaction. Generally speaking, feedback from my workshops show girls don't mind guys flirting but want to take things a little slower. Getting to the finish line faster is not the objective of most girls and it's good for guys to understand this.
Acceptable and unacceptable flirting behavior - offensive body language
Knowing what's acceptable and unacceptable can easily be obtained by flirting with someone you fancy and gauging their reaction. I know those who are more aware and take into account how others react are more likely to succeed and not cross the boundaries.

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