Building Rapport Through Flirting



Building rapport through flirting is easy when you break it down into little steps.

The first step can be to try making the other person feel more interesting, rather than make yourself more interesting.

An interested person is an interesting person, so ask open ended questions and find out what they are passionate about.

Use all of your senses to really listen to what they are saying.

Building Rapport through Flirting - How to Flirt

Giving your undivided attention helps with building rapport and will automatically draw people to you.

Charisma is not about being the most attractive person in the room or the person with the most money. It's about making other people feel special, and making them feel like they are the only one in the room.

When you think about it, when do you really feel terrific when conversing? Is it when you feel well liked, like you are special?

So if we agree making the other person feel great is the fastest way to build rapport, what are the steps we can take?

The following are some great ways for building rapport through flirting.

Methods for Building Rapport through Flirting

  • Matching Body language - Given Body Language is 55% of communication this is a big one.

    Reading Body Language

  • Matching vocal tone, speed and volume - Another 38% of communication is paralinguistics, the way we speak, our voice patterns if you like. Get this part right as well and you are almost home.

  • Paraphrasing - Now the other 7% of communication comes into play. Paraphrasing is merely repeating what the other person said in another way. Really easy to do as you just use your own words.

    Conversation Etiquette

  • Showing Interest - Show them you are interested and you will look so much more attractive to the other person. It makes them feel good and it's such a great compliment.

  • Remember their name - Everyone's favourite word in the English language is the sound of their own name. So it makes sense to remember it!

    Building rapport when flirting requires all of the above plus some tips on how to flirt. When you combine building rapport as well as showing flirting intent, wink wink, you know what I mean, the next step will be to get their phone number!


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