Do not know what to say

Ever said to someone I just do not know what to say when chatting to another single.

It's actually more common than you think, and not such a difficult thing to get around.

If you ever get tongue tied or just cannot think of anything to say just remember the power of asking questions.

Knowing how to flirt with questions can help keep the conversation going, as well as taking the pressure of yourself.

Thinking of the next thing to say can stall a conversation, so try to keep things moving by asking good questions.

Everyone likes talking about themselves, so a question such as 'what do you like to do for fun' should get a positive response.

I also think it's a much better question than 'what do you do for a living?' which can produce a positive or negative response.

For instance, what if you meet someone really cute and they just don't happen to like their job but would love to talk about their favourite sports team, or favourite activity outside of work.

The more you are able to get things going, the more comfortable you will get doing this, and the easier it will get.

Here are some speed dating conversation starters to get you going.



Do not know what to say - conversation etiquette


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