Flirting Communication
Flirting communication can be quite different when you look at both sexes.
For example why is it women talk and men don't listen?
When flirting, men can be direct, while women can take poetic licence with their vocabulary.
Let's say you are at a restaurant and you overhear a couple on their first date talking about movies:
Woman: "Oh I love Meg Ryan, I just love all her movies"
Guy: "Yeah she is good, although I did not like her in the Doors movie"
Woman: "Oh yes, she wasn't very good in that one"
Now, to the girl, her first comment was just taking some licence with her vocabulary, not literally thinking all her movies were great.
The guy however, thinks more literally and can get frustrated as she then says something completely contradictory.
To the guy, he can think she is a bit flippity and not consistent.
Sound familiar at all?
A common choice of phrase for women can be:
"He always does that" or 'She always wears that dress"
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Guys find this confusing as these statements are just not true. Know that we know this, the best way to flirt is just know the words do not always reflect what she is truly thinking. Simple as that.

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