Flirting on the first phone call

What to say on that first phone call



Flirting on the first phone call is usually a mix of both panic and excitement, followed by relief once you make the call.

Like most aspects of flirting the most difficult part is at the beginning.

What's the first thing to say?

Girls prefer guys to be themselves and of course to sound happy to talk to them.

Don't worry about starting with opening lines, or trying to be too clever. Girls just love you to be yourself and let your fun side show through.

An easy start is 'how are you?', then perhaps talk about the last time you met - 'Did you enjoy the other night out at the concert?'

If during the conversation you start worrying about things to say, try thinking of 2 or 3 favourite topics, which are light hearted.

Remember we don't want to get too heavy early on.

Topics such as favourite music, favourite movies and hobbies are a good start.

Also if you do get stuck, remember flirting questions are a great method to fall back on.

How to flirt with questions

How will I know if she is interested?

To gauge her interest try asking certain questions. Flirting on the first phone call is about gauging reactions and the flow of conversation.

During the flow of conversation you can comment 'Oh I usually go to such and such bar, you should come along', or 'I always wanted to see that film, if you ever wanted to watch it?'

Then listen for their reaction. They may feel obliged to say OK, or be nice, so make sure you don't corner the girl or guy and make sure they really would like to.

How to close the deal

Keep chatting and flirting and getting to know your new friend, whilst occasionally popping 'suggestions' to meet up. Don't try anymore than 2 or 3 times.

If you feel she is very warm then ask her out on a date.

Some date ideas are better than others so try the following link for suggestions.

Flirting on the first phone call - Good first date ideas

If she isn't warm however and you don't feel it's quite working out, just keep chatting and flirting - she may be slow to warm up normally and girls especially can be a little cautious before they trust you.

It's not personal so keep going and if you sense she would like you to take things easy, then do exactly that. If she likes you there will be no problem calling her again, so don't fret.

Flirting on the first phone call is not that hard really so good luck, there is no doubt you can charm people, so go get 'em.


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