Flirting Psychology of Men

The flirting psychology of men differs from women for a number of reasons.

We know men think and behave differently, so what are they thinking when they are flirting?

Goal orientated

Men generally don't flirt for the sake of flirting. They spend less time flirting with people they aren't interested in then women.

They flirt with a purpose, making them less natural flirts and they can treat flirting as a means to an end.

More forward

Don't be put off if guys are more forward or get to the point sooner than you would yourself.

How men flirt is with a goal in mind, to get a number, to set up a date or to get closer to you.

Flirting psychology of men - male body language

The thing is, you don't have to commit to anything early on, just understand they think differently. In a lot of cases they will take the lead from a female.

So when you think about it, as a woman, you still can have control in a flirting situation.

Targeted

Men can be more targeted, rather then let things flow naturally. This is not such a bad thing when you think about it.

Imagine most guys will test the waters but still take their queue from girls, so be comfortable in the fact you already know this.

The trick is not to be put off by differences in the sexes, just because guys behave a different way. Most are respectful and really are still learning what you already know.