Flirting Strategies

There are some flirting strategies that can make a real difference.




When I look at what has worked in my coaching, I tend to lean towards the following flirting techniques.

Eye contact

One major area where both men and women tend to fall down is lack of eye contact.

First thing is to ask yourself - am I making eye contact with him or her?

Secondly, always remember to smile when looking at someone as well.

Keep moving

Another good strategy is to keep moving around when at a party or bar.

You never know who is around the corner.

Test the waters

If you want their number of but are too shy to ask, try a pre-emptive closing question.

You can suggest doing something of common interest and gauge their reaction, or ask what their ideal date is and see if they respond positively.

Flirting strategies - female body language

Male body language