Flirting tips to stroke a mans ego



Flirting tips to stroke a mans ego starts with knowing how a guy thinks.

One of my favourite movies is 'Love Actually', a movie about love and relationships, for my husband it is 'When we were Kings', a boxing movie about Mohammad Ali.

Many guys love 'Top Gun' as well.

Women love talking and thinking relationships and a lot of guys love competing and action.

Even if the guy you like doesn't appear competitive, he is.

Stroking a man's ego is childs play once you know this.

Another big factor for men is showing respect. If you decide you don't agree with something he says, that's fine but he will feel disrespect from you if you dismiss what he says.

Best to tactfully give your point of view and avoid an argument if you want him. Let him argue with other girls or his mates.

So what are the flirting tips to stroke a mans ego?

Example of stroking a mans ego

The best way to communicate this I think is via examples - what to do and what not to do.

So lets join in on a little conversation as this guy and girl talk about their weekend.

Guy: "I went paint balling with some mates on the weekend"

Girl: " Sounds like fun. How did you go?"

Guy: "OK I guess but our team lost"

Ok now lets look at a good reply to this guy:

Girl: " That's OK, it's hard when your team is not as good. So your pretty athletic huh?"

Now lets look at a bad flirting response:

Flirting tips to stroke a mans ego - female body language

Girl bad response: "That's OK, we can't be good at everything"

This has just made him feel two foot tall as you empathise with some thoughts on being a loser. Guys really can be sensitive to this sort of things so best to talk up his achievements.

More flirting tips to stroke a mans ego?

Best ways to compliment him

Hear are some we compiled from a flirting workshop, asking the guys to respond to compliments from girls.

  • Tell him he is interesting

    One of the major fears many guys have is not being interesting to women, so this worked well.

  • Tell him he is funny

    Guys loved this one especially. It makes them feel clever and they love the thought they can make a girl happy.

  • Ask him for help

    Guys love to feel needed. Try it even if you can do something yourself.

  • Ask him for his opinion

    Once again a guy feels needed, and it shows you trust his judgement.

  • Compliment his dress sense

    Girls rarely do this one, so it's a double compliment for a guy to get.

    These are the main flirting tips to stroke a mans ego and you really only need to know some basics to make it work believe me.

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