One of the more popular ideas we have found is cards, created with photos and pictures (usually helpful if you are computer savvy). So much more intimate and thoughtful, I must admit its a favourite of mine.

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Nothing is more exciting than going on an unplanned date. It's not only inventive but really shows you are willing to put in some extra thought - you might say a true flirting valentine!

What sort of secret rendezvous I hear you ask? try these first date ideas

Yes believe it or not you can name a star after your sweet heart! This I must is a very unique and totally romantic offering. Although proceeds often go to non for profit conservatories, it is commercialised to a degree.

Star Registry - Name a Star

Create a little treasure hunt, planting flowers or even envelopes with little messages in places where they tend to go (house, car, passages to work or school). Totally inventive and keeps the suspense building to their prize at the end.

Guys, I can't tell you how much effect a love poem can have on a girl. Tip here is not to create the perfect phrase or poetry, but incorporate what you like about him or her, little outing you took together and everyday things. They will love it.

A novel idea is to offer to do your lovers chores for a day. You can even create a simple voucher "1 Free day of chores" to give to them as a gift.

So it's really not difficult to a flirting valentine when you think about it. I hope these suggestions help and remember have fun and don't overthink it!

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Flirting Valentine - What to Wear