He was flirting now he is ignoring meA lot of readers of mine mention the same frustration - he was flirting now he is ignoring me. So what do I do? The thing is, before you DO anything, it's better to understand why first. Yes, he can be ignoring you because he really likes you, he could also be reacting to how you react to him. He could also be playing it cool, at a time when he is creating his own identity. Understanding is he flirting with me? or do I have a fear of rejection can be a starting point. Take away the sex factor, and most guys are just like us, sometimes they're complicated, and sometimes they are not. One thing I can tell you though, is more times than not, a guy will ignore a girl if he feels the girl is no longer interested in him. Now once or twice can be shyness, but you think about it. We tend to avoid eye contact if we feel the other person is not interested in us. The same goes for guys as well. So let's change things a little. Are you giving him the cold shoulder? You may feel like you aren't but ask your friends how you behave around him. If you don't want to ask, try and step outside of yourself for a minute and answer the question of how your behavior influences him. Do you make eye contact for very long? Do you show any positive body language? he was flirting now he is ignoring me - male body language When all is said and done, try a different approach, make good eye contact or talk to him more. Then see what happens. Above all, don't get down if you think he is ignoring you, as only you can make yourself feel bad.
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