Yes he could be playing hard to get but chances are if he isn't compelled to call you over a few weeks, either he is playing games or hes just not that into you.

If he looks away (not in a shy way) or tends to have his feet or legs pointing away from you, its not a good sign.

Once again it mat be a sign of shyness, but if he isn't willing to meet your glances or looks away and does not look back, chances are hes not that into you.

A good test to check if he is into you is ease in some personal talk into the conversation - if he avoids the conversation and becomes aloof or goes quiet, he may not be the one for you.

A tell tale sign he may be a player and could be someone to give a wide birth to, no matter how cute he is.

hes not that into you - getting him to ask you out

Another tell-tale sign he may not be interested. depending on the excuse. If he just has to go home because he looks bored or doesn't have a legitimate excuse, it may be time to look elsewhere.

If he is commitment phobic - does it mean he is not into you? Put it this way - either he isn't going to commit at this stage in his life, or, hes not that into you.

You know how sometimes you know? You can't necessarily say why, but you know deep down. Trust your sixth sense, your intuition along with some of the test above.

Also try asking your friends for their opinions, away from the fire so to speak. Another view can be so helpful, as long as it is constructive. Remember to avoid negative people but sometimes others can see what you cannot.

Hope this helps you and hope life does work out beautifully for you.