How to Appear Confident

If we break down basic communication to 55% body language and 38 % vocal tone (Albert Mehrabrian study), then these two areas are a great place to start.

It starts with body language

It's amazing how much difference positive body language can have on confidence.

The best way to practice positive body language is in front of a mirror. Also try and observe how people react when you physically move in different ways.

Try these body language tips for size.

How to appear confident with body language

Vocal Tone

Good vocal tone comes from good breathing. If your voice does not sound relaxed or you feel a little anxious or nervous, try 5-10 deep breaths to help calm you down. Your voice will also start to sound more assured and relaxed.

Fake it till you make it

The concept of fake it till you make it is based on your sub-conscious getting used to situations that normally make you feel uncomfortable.

The concept is if you are in a situation long enough, you will get used to it and gain confidence. In dating this means getting out there on as many dates as you possibly can.

Try these speed dating events in your area.

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Knowing how to appear confident is about working on your body language, vocal tone and getting out there and experiencing life.