How to get a guy to ask you out 2

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2. Make conversation - flirting straight away.

Don't wait until the end of the night. Have fun and be light hearted straight away.

Aside: another point - a lot of women can get caught up on the usefulness of such lighthearted discussion on such trivial matters i.e we should talk about meaningful topics. I say you are so much better off to keep it light and concentrate on the person, not so much the words.

Do not forget having fun, laughing and flirting is being very smart. You know you don't have to have serious discussions for the rest of your life so why go down that path.

3. Give him an opening.

Feedback from a lot of guys is on a lot of occasions, the intent is there, but there are barriers such as the presence of her girlfriends or anyone in general that can dissuade a guy.

On a lot of occasions the guys are looking for an opening, and sometimes girls need to think more like an air traffic controller and wave the guy in for landing.

4. Signal him in.

Now you are talking and flirting, you really need to signal him in to ask you out.

The best way is to talk about doing things couple usually do, like going to the movies, going out to dinner and if you are game, mention the fact you have no guy usually to go with (try and do this in a light hearted way).

Also try sneaking into the conversation snippets about boyfriends, girlfriends and relationships to identify the fact you are both single. It helps to focus the conversation a little he he.

Good Luck.