How to get a guy to ask you out

Asking a guy out for a date



One of the key areas we tackle in flirting workshops is 'how to get a guy to ask you out' and naturally this gets a lot of interest.

God knows a lot of us have been there - you are talking to a cute guy you are interested in, but at the end of the night he doesn't have your phone number.

It's one of the biggest frustrations is most girls will still take the old fashioned approach of waiting for the guy to ask.

So let's learn how to get him to ask you out.

1. Think connection not attraction.

You could spend half the effort you normally take to look attractive and spend more time on flirting and connecting with the opposite sex. and get much better results. A lot of girls take convincing on this one but stay with me here.

The best way to connect with someone is through the eyes. It's innate and born into us to choose people through their eyes.

Eye contact if done provocatively and long enough will make your target focus directly on you and everyone else in the room will melt into the background.

Girls especially take careful note of this - cleavage will impress him but connecting through to him with eye contact will get him to ask you out.

Learn the basics of how to get a guy to ask you out and hopefully you won't have to wonder if he is interested or not.

2. Make conversation - flirting straight away.

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