How to get her phone number

So first things first.

You have to get connection

A lot of guys can be very goal orientated and make the mistake of asking for her phone number before she is ready.

She may have been willing to give her number once she is comfortable with you, but if you ask too early she will tend to turn off.

Reading her body language

Knowing when the right time to ask for her number is critical when you're talking to her.

Try some of the tips on is she flirting? , then watch for the tell-tale signs she is waiving you in.

Be patient

One of the most common complaints I receive is guys can sometimes be a little impatient as girls want to take it slower.

The only recommendation here is be patient and don't worry too much about whether you achieve the end goal and just let it flow.

Think instead of enjoying the flirting process as you too are deciding whether you like this girl or not.

Trial closes

It's a simple thing to say, but by the end of the date, or end of the night try weaving into the conversation you would like to see her again.

If you find this part difficult, try some trial closes such as 'what would be your perfect date?' to get her thinking along those lines.

She may soon cotton on you are interested and reply 'are you going to ask me out?'.

Girls are very intuitive at times so trial closes can work well.

How to get her phone number - first date ideas

You don't want to go home wondering and regretting you did not ask, so don't forget to ask for her number.

Learning the tricks of overcoming fear of rejection helps to prepare you for this scenario.

So good luck and hope it goes well!