How to I get confortable with a girl without any material to talk about?

by Anon

I am a guy in 10th grade, and I go to school with many attractive girls. I have a big problem with speaking with these "girls". I get very anxious.

I dress very nicely, keep great hygiene, and look preppy and sharp all the time. I always get "the eye", and I know it for a fact. But still, I can't make anything happen verbally.

I suck at talking, because it always feel like I am saying the wrong things, or it seems too obvious that I am trying to flirt.

Every time I have attempted something with a girl, such as a "Hey" or whatever, it somehow ends up turning awkward. Because it seems like I can't keep a flow of the conversation.

Bottom line, I really want to get with some girls, but It feels like I don't know what to do or say.





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How to I get confortable with a girl without any material to talk about?

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May 25, 2008
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by: Anonymous

I know, it sounds so vague, but its true. Girls like guys for who they are, under the exterior. If you're in classes together, ask about an assignment or project. If not, just ask what's up. Just relax. Girls aren't a mystery- just talk to them like you would your other frineds.
May 22, 2008
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by: Anonymous

Don't look at girls as some mystery: Talk to them as you would talk to your boys (Ommitting the sexual remarks and rude jokes) JUST TALK!!!

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