How to keep her interested

Making a girl fall for you



How to keep her interested is really about seeing the world from the girls' point of view. So what is it that impresses a girl?

Well what impressed me the most when I was single was a guy who showed genuine interest in me. It was certainly a great start to allow me to be open with him.

The best way to do this is by asking about herself, things like "What do you get up to for fun?", or "What makes you laugh?".

Keep it light hearted

Keeping it light hearted as well really helps. No-one wants a boring conversation and a lot of people find subjects of work and even current affairs boring.

As noble as it is not to talk about such 'frivolous' topics for some people, try it just once or twice and see how it makes a difference.

Knowing how to keep her interested is knowing how to keep her engaged without 'trying' to be interesting yourself - if you know what I mean.

If you are in doubt, always remember to make eye and smile. A lot can be said without words and if you can connect with good eye contact, believe me, you are half way home.

Eye Body Language

Nothing in this world of flirting effects a girl more than eye contact believe me.

So keep her engaged with pleasant smiles, peppering light-hearted questions every now and then just enjoy the process of flirting even though you might feel nervous as hell.

Chances are she is nervous and it's just a natural reaction and it will subside after a while.

Seal the deal

Now before you try to seal the deal guys (unless of course she has to leave), make sure she is interested in you as well as ready to arrange a date or give her phone number.

So many guys do complain that despite showing the signs she liked them, they didn't want to give the number out. In a lot of cases its after 10 minutes conversation which is ample for some guys but not for many girls.

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Try some trial closes within the context of the conversation. If you are talking about the weekend, mention you are meeting friends at a bar and she should come along with her friends. Then gauge her reaction.

If you are talking music, suggest we should swap our favourite CDs some time. Keep it open and see how keen she is.

If she is luke warm, just keep warming the fire and keep flirting, you might get there in a little while.

By knowing how to keep her interested as we have described you can keep her engaged until she warms up a little more.

If she is very keen however, then go for it.


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