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Hi Matthew, Thanks for your email. What have you got to lose? After all the answer's already no if you don't ask. It's amazing how many of us let opportunities go because we aren't quite sure which approach to take, when honestly the simple approach is often the best. Try this: Next time you see her (although I'd recommend you wait until the end of your treatment) Hold your eye contact for a fraction longer than you normally would (any more than 4 seconds is staring so break away before then). Smile Give her a sincere compliment (Being a nurse she probably gets loads of compliments so try to think about something that makes her unique or special...if you're stuck try writing a list of all the things you like about her and pick one eg. You're such a beautiful, giving person or you're radiant) Then gently brush her hand (remember women are far more sensitive to touch than men so we're talking about a feather stroke here). If she pulls away, avoids eye contact, starts arching her back away from you, gets facial twitches or tenses up (remember we're looking for 3 - 5 signals including micro gestures) then she feels uncomfortable. You could be going too fast, or she might be in a relationship or you might not be her type. If however, she moves closer to you, touches you back, and maintains eye contact then you're in with a chance. Ask her out! Bear in mind Matthew that she is at her place of work and may feel uncomfortable about flirting in the workplace. She's also more likely to touch you as part of her job so you might need to discount general touching in this case. In case she feels uncomfortable dating at work you might try saying something like this... I'd love to take you out but if you're uncomfortable about going out with a patient I'm happy to wait. That way you're giving her a way out. Whatever happens you can give yourself a pat on the back for giving it a go! Good luck ! Katia Loisel - Furey Miss Flirt <br><br><center> <iframe src="http://www.top-flirting-tips.com/C2_below_336x280.html" width="350" height="300" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" align="center"> </iframe></center><br><br>

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