How To Treat A Man Questionnaire

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Please note this Questionnaire is for men to complete

© 2008 Paul Morris Segal, Inna Segal and Katia Loisel - Furey

If you are a woman, please click here to complete the How To Treat a Woman Questionnaire

Please note that all fields followed by an asterisk must be filled in.
First Name*
Last Name*
E-mail Address*
State/Prov*
Country*
Sex*
Male
Female
Sexual Orientation*
Marital Status*
Age
Nationality
Religion
Do you have any children? If yes how many?
Physical Description
Job Description
Would you like your name to be changed (We will use a pseudonym)
1a. Do pick up lines work on you?
What is the worst pick up line you have ever heard?
What is the best pick up line your have ever heard?
b.Who should make the first move?
c.If you are with a group of male friends, should a woman approach if she is interested?
Would you feel comfortable approaching a woman you were attracted to if she was with a group of girlfriends?
What could a girl out with her girlfriends do to make it easier for you to approach?
d.Is hello the best way to start a conversation?
e.Do you like it if the woman compliments you?
f.Do you like it when a woman looks you up and down? (Gives you the head to toe look)
g.Do you like to be offered a drink?
h.Do you like it if a woman that you don’t know touches you whilst flirting?
i.Do you like sexual innuendo?
j.Should women ask men out?
k.If yes, when should she call you?
l.Do you like it when a woman flirts with you via sms prior to asking you out
m. Should a woman ask you out via sms?
2a. What signals would a woman need to be giving you for you to feel comfortable approaching her and what could she say or do to make you feel more comfortable?
2b. When you first meet someone that you are attracted to how do you come across / react, are you warm and open, or do you appear closed and unapproachable? (Warm and Open / Closed and unapproachable)
2c. Is there different to the way you are when you are with your friends?
2d. Do you feel nervous approaching someone you’re attracted to?
2e. Would you approach someone you were attracted to if there was no sign of interest from her?
2f. Do you find it difficult to approach someone you don't know?
2 g. Would you find going for a job interview easier than approaching someone you find attractive?
2h. Would you find it easier to approach someone who was making eye contact and smiling at you?
2 i. Have you ever not called when you said that you were going to?
2j. Have you ever deliberately given out a wrong number to a woman?
2k. Have you tried online dating?
2l. If yes, what do you mainly go online for?
2m. How far would you go online?
2n. If you would do cyber sex online, how soon?
2o. How many people would you date online at the same time?
2p. Do you lie in your online profile
2q. At what point would you like to meet the person?
2r. Have you ever thought that someone wasn't interested in you only to find out that they were flirting?
2s. Is fear of rejection the main reason you wouldn't approach someone you were attracted to?
2t. Would you find it easier to approach someone you were attracted to if you had a purpose? eg asking for directions, helping the host at a party, taking photos etc
2u. Have you ever avoided eye contact or ignored someone who you were attracted to?
3. What qualities are most important to you in a prospective partner?
Religion
Talent
Voice
Common Interests
Spirituality
Looks
Money
Cleanliness
Profession
Sexiness
Sense of Humour
Intelligence
Knowing them or recommendation from a friend
Other (Please list)
4a. Should a woman make a move on you? (Yes / No)
4a. If so, when?
4b. If you like a woman, would you have sex on a first date?
4c. Would you still think of a girl as ‘marriage or long term’ potential if she slept with you on the first date?
4d. How long after a date should a woman call you?
4e. Would you like the woman to offer to pay for the date/dinner or to go dutch or pay yourself?
5a. How important are appearances to you?
5b. What are the most attractive qualities you find in a woman?
5c. Is her profession important to you?
5d. Is it important how much money she makes?
5e. How important is how a woman dresses and grooms herself?
5f. How important is honesty at the beginning of a relationship?
5 g. How important is it to you that a woman knows how to cook, clean, do the laundry?
5 h. How important is honesty at the beginning of a relationship?
5 i. Is it important that she pays you compliments?
5 j. When a woman is not into you, is there a way she can break it to you so you don’t feel hurt or rejected?
5 k. Does her age matter?
5 l. Would you go out with an older woman?
5l. If yes, how much older?
5l. If yes, how much younger?
5 m. If your woman has a best friend who is male would you be jealous or try to be friends with him?
5n. Would you ever consider / like to be in an open relationship?
5o. What do you feel women don’t understand about men?
6a. What do women do that put you off?
6b. Do you believe it is possible for a woman to change her bad habits?
7a. Do you believe in love at first sight?
7b. Can love grow even if there is no initial attraction?
7c. Do you like it when a woman shows you her feelings?
7d. If a woman is emotional does it turn you on or off?
7e. Do you like sensitive, caring women?
7 f. Is a woman’s education important to you?
7f. Do you prefer ‘book smarts’ or ‘street smarts’?
8 a. When you meet a woman are you looking for a long term relationship - marriage or just for fun?
8b. Do you believe in marriage?
8c. Do you want to get married?
8d. Are your parents still together ?
8 e. What do you want out of a relationship?
8 f. What needs to be present to sustain a long-term relationship?
8 g. How important is communication in a relationship?
8 h. When is it important to meet her family?
8 i. Does it matter if she already has children?
8 j. Do you want a woman who wants to have children?
8 k. How important are maintaining common interests in a relationship?
8 l. Is flirting with someone online or via sms whilst you are dating/ in a relationship cheating?
8m. How important is it important that a woman gives you your space?
8 n. Would you stay with a partner who cheated on you?
9a. How important is it that your friends like her?
9b. How important is it that you like her friends?
9c. How important is it that her family likes you?
10 a. What turns you on?
10b. What’s your favourite body part on a woman?
10 c. What is your favorite sexual fantasy?
10 d. Would you ask your partner to take part in your sexual fantasy?
10 e. If so, when?
10f. How often do you like to make love?
10 g. Do you like to talk or have silence during sex?
10 h. What would you like a woman to say to you during sex?
10 i. What are you favorite positions during sex?
10 i (ii) Are there any positions that you don't like?
10j Does breast size matter?
10j. Do you prefer Small / Medium / Large?
10k. Would you like your partner to strip for you?
10l. Would you strip for your partner?
10m. Would you like your partner to have a Brazilian wax?
10n. Does it upset you if a woman that you are interested in doesn't return your call after you've slept with them?
10 o. Does sexual experience matter?
10p. Is monogamy important to you?
10 q. What is more important - quantity of sex or quality of sex?
10r. Do you use sex toys?
11. What is more important?
That a woman buys you things or
That a woman shows you affection
A woman's job or
A Woman's character
Family or
Friends
Money or
Love
Appearances or
Attitude
Sex or
Romance
Fidelity or
Honesty
12a. Is it important that a woman share your religious / spiritual beliefs?
13 a. Please share any short, funny or embarrassing stories / examples of a woman treating you the way you would like.
13b. Please share any short stories / examples of a woman not treating you how you would like or dating disasters.
13a. When you meet somebody you are attracted to, do you discuss them with your friends?
13b. Do you talk to your friends about sex?
13c. If your best friend broke up with his girlfriend, and you liked her, would you go out with her?
15 a. Are you too picky?
15b. Do you shy away from conversations and meeting new people?
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