Is he flirting with me??

by Lisa
(New Zealand)

I think so.

I started to notice him more, or at least he was starting to draw my attention. He would come into my space, so close, side by side and sometimes our arms would touch. He would manage to touch my arm, hand or shoulder every time we met, always making contact somehow.

We always chatted and when I got a new job he told his friend what I was doing, and it was almost like he was proud of me.

Another time I fully caught him looking me up and down, and he liked what he saw. Then one day we were sitting with friends chatting and underneath the table his knee touched mine and I moved my leg. Low and behold his knee once again found my knee, so I left it there after all my knee was there first...lol

Anyway these are just a few of the things he did.

So what did I do? Nothing! Why you might ask?? Because I didn't really know if he was flirting with me or just being friendly touchy feely wise.

This is where I became the joke of my friends...I googled flirting just to find out if he indeed was putting the moves on me. Unfortunately for me the ship has now sailed and he's stopped flirting and with my new job I don't get to see him much.

Now I'm not a naive or gullible person but I just did NOT see it and when I did, I didn't know what to do and it was too late! Arrrggghhh.

I can be such a loser at times. This whole flirting process went on for about 8 months! Yep stupid stupid me!