Is he flirting with me?

Have you ever wondered whether a guy was interested or just being friendly or been sure that a gorgeous guy wasn’t interested only to find out he’d been flirting?

The following extract was taken from the 2-sided book How to get the man you want / How to get the woman you want written by Katia Loisel-Furey and Paul Morris Segal.

Guys don’t send as many flirting signals as women so if you think he’s hot, keep your eyes peeled and make sure you’re sending at least 3 to five positive signals his way.

Let’s start with the basics.

Want to know the signals most commonly used by men to indicate interest? He’ll gaze in your direction, smile, maintain eye contact for up to four seconds, give you a half smile, look away before having another peek around 30 seconds later.

Doesn’t sound that hard to spot does it?

But before you get too keen, remember to always look for a cluster of three to five signals and if he’s not pointing at you or looking in your direction chances it’s not you he’s flirting with.

Now that you’ve got the basics let’s get started.

Before he’s even registered that he’s attracted his body has started sending out micro-signals that say you’re hot. He’ll stand tall, become erect, give himself a non-surgical chest lift, pull his stomach in, and tense his muscles. It’s his body’s way of getting ready for an encounter, with you.

Okay, so you’ve got your eye on a gorgeous guy, you think he’s keen but you’re still not quite sure. What other signals give him away?