Is she flirting with me?
Picture yourself talking to some-one and you are wondering, is she flirting with me? You are starting to get some signals but you don't quite know what they mean and you definitely don't know for sure she is flirting.
The following extract was taken from the 2-sided book How to get the man you want / How to get the woman you want written by Katia Loisel-Furey and Paul Morris Segal. Have you ever wondered whether a girl was interested or just being friendly or been sure that a gorgeous girl wasn’t interested only to find out she’d been flirting?
Women may not always take the first step but when it comes to sending out signals of interest, they often make the first move, sending out far more signals than men. So pay attention.
Let’s start with the basics
Want to know the signals most commonly used by women to indicate interest?
Well she’ll gaze in your direction, smile, maintain eye contact for up to four seconds, give you a half smile or look away before having another peek around 30 seconds later.
Doesn’t sound that hard to spot does it?
But before you get too keen, remember to always look for a cluster of three to five signals and if she’s not pointing at you or looking in your direction chances it’s not you she’s flirting with.
Now that you’ve got the basics let’s get started.
Before she’s even registered that she’s attracted, her body has started sending out micro-signals that say you’re hot. She’ll stand tall, give herself a non-surgical breast lift, pull her stomach in, tense her thigh muscles. It’s her body’s way of getting ready for an encounter, with you.
Still not sure ?
Okay, so you’ve got your eye on a gorgeous girl, you think she’s keen, but you’re still not quite sure. What other signals give her away?
She might give you the repeated darting glance
Give you the over the shoulder look
Play a game of peek-a-boo
Hold your gaze
Take a visual journey of your face
Toss or play with her hair
Let her hair down
Play with her mouth, lick her lips or put objects into her mouth
So is she flirting with me yet ? Well that’s not all…
She might also stroke herself
Massage her neck exposing her erogenous zones, her neck, wrists and breasts
Preen or adjust her clothing
Unbutton or button her clothes
Do the leg twine
Expose her inner thigh with one knee pointed forward
Kick her leg up and down.
Do the shoe fondle
Or slowly cross and uncross her legs
What other signals is she giving you? If she’s looking at you a smile darting across her lips, slowly crossing and uncrossing her legs whilst gently stroking her thigh, get over there fast. She’s subconsciously telling you where she’d like to be touched.
Now, If you’re lucky enough to be standing close to her look out for these signals that tell you she’s keen:
She might move closer to you
Mirror you
Invade your personal space with objects
Move her head towards yours
Do the whisper and lean
Or touch you
... so is she flirting with me ? well the above is just for starters.
Try out the book How to get the man you want / How to get the woman you want for much more.
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