Reading female body language signals
HOT TIP - When it comes to flirting and reading female body language signals always look for a cluster of 3 or more of the following signals when reading female body language. Of course if you take some of these just on face value it could mean anything. It's how they are packaged that is important i.e are they done in quick succession and targeted at the same person? Here are just some of the signals that tell you she might be interested She keeps glancing over - Its human nature to keep looking towards what we're attracted to. However, some girls will avoid eye contact due to nerves, their insecurities or because they think that playing hard to get is the way to get the guy. Which makes understanding female body language a little more difficult for you guys. Don't despair if you can't see her looking initially - she may be without you knowing!. Extended eye contact - No better way to make a guy's blood start rushing than with extended eye contact. Don't worry if it makes you feel funny - run with it and enjoy feeling a bit uncomfortable, after all that butterfly feeling in your stomach is your body's love hormone phenylethylamine which tells you that you're attracted. Believe me, those first two are keys to remember in reading female body language signals. Now let's get into more of the physical side of things. Touching - If she breaks the contact barrier during conversation, its a big sign. Of course some women are naturally very touchy feely, so again see if she is like that with other people.Plays with her hair or object when looking at you - Part of the preening process, she's making herself look good and preening herself, her body's subconscious attempt to make herself look more attractive to you.Exposes palm of her wrists and other erogenous zones -If she's looking and smiling at you, and holding your gaze whilst exposing her wrists or erogenous zones (her neck, collarbone, inside of her arm or breasts) she's showing you where she might like to be touched.Licks her lips - When she's attracted her lips and genitals fill with blood making them sensitive to touch and tingle with excitement and anticipation. Want to drive her crazy? Hold eye contact with her for up for four seconds before letting your eyes rest on her lips and then back to her eyes with a knowing look and smile that says it all.Slowly crossing and uncrossing her legs - This is great flirting language. Look for the other great move of her straightening her skirt yet showing a little more leg.Adjust her clothing or preen whilst looking at you - As we know women do a lot of preening without anyone's encouragement, so if she is doing this whilst looking at you, its probably just for you. If she's smiling as well...bam it could be the start of something.Whisper and lean - This is a classic flirting technique and something girls use a lot more than guys. She'll lean in and whisper invading your intimate space with her head and perhaps even touching you. It's her attempt to get closer to you and is a big sign that she feels very comfortable with you and might just like you. Accidentally brushes past you - Women are far more sensitive to touch than most men and often use the accidental brush past to indicate interest. The only problem is I've yet to meet a guy who picks it up for what it is; a signal of interest. We've seen this one so many times at the speed dating events, especially later in the night. So, if you feel something brush past you don't ignore it, turn around and smile. You may just be surprised.The shoulder flash - When a girl is interested she might do the shoulder flash,(a quick raise of her shoulders). It's one of her body's subconscious ways to indicate interest.The over the shoulder look - If she's looking at you and her body is pointing in your direction, the over the shoulder look which exposes her erogenous zones is a cheeky invitation to say 'hi'.The shoe fondle or shoes dangling at the toes - Dangling high heels on a woman can accentuate her legs, be a little revealing as well as playful. But remember to check who she's looking at and where she's pointing to discover who her target is!You see, when reading female body language signals, it is not that hard when you look at it. Look for clusters of 3 signals or more and remember to have fun and don't overthink it. It is meant to be easy after all! ---sidebar---
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