The Secrets of Attracting Men 3

Let's look at both scenarios from the previous page (secrets of attracting men 2) and see what we can conclude.

Scenario 1

The girl in scenario one represents a common flirting technique that does not always work.

Her focus in on getting attention and not connection!

Her issue is that in the short term she gains a sense of self belief and improved self confidence from the attention she receives.

Thing is, she needs to know that guys can see this a challenge, against competing guys. The main focus for the guys may not be finding out what sort of person she is, but winning the conquest.

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If she does not focus her attention and try to connect with one guy, she will find it a lot more difficult to find a relationship.

Scenario 2

Now, this girl is doing the right thing for herself, that is, being more honest with her intentions and her signals.

The secrets of attracting men are easier than you think, so let's check out what she did right.

1. Connection

Number one, she connected with someone in particular, not just flirting with the masses. Guys like to feel special, just like a girl and this worked well for her.

2. Three Points of Contact

She made the all important 3 points of contact with her man.

Just like advertising, the brain needs reminding, and in a flirting context, it's reassurance for him that she is actually interested.

3. She flirted

Not only did she make eye contact with him, she smiled as well (crucial) and even flicked her hair. Not knowing it, she probably looked more cute to the guy by not doing it perfectly.

We are at our most attractive when we show our human side.