Touching and Flirting

The key to touching and flirting is knowing when you have permission.

In reality we find this out through trial and error, but it's important to know some body language tips first.

Before you get within 30 cm of someone of the opposite sex, you need to work through the social zone first, then their personal zone.

To do so the opposite way is fraught with danger, so it's best to know how close do you get? when in certain social situations.

Once you are in the personal zone, and you feel things are going nicely you can always 'trial' making a move towards them in their personal zone, but you don't have to actually touch to gauge their reaction.

If you get the green signals try making them laugh or if you are getting along, you can move in a little closer.

Remember guys, baby steps, as most girls are far more sensitive in their personal zone, so respect that.

If the signals are there, you can always try and sidle up a little closer.

Let your intuition guide you, but don't be offended if it doesn't work as planned. Some are just slow to warm up, but can still like you.

You can see also touching and flirting - is it being sleazy? if you are worried about appearing sleazy to the opposite sex.