Why men dont call

A recent focus group we facilitated showed some interesting insights.

What we found was the critical issue here was what the guy was thinking at the time the number was given.

A survey of guys showed some honest answers, and there were two possible reasons:

(a) They took her number with no intention of calling, or
(b) They did take the number with an intention to call, but later changed their mind.

In a lot of cases, men actually asked for her phone number as it was the expected thing to do.

So why don't men call when they say they will?

Well let me ask you a question first of all.

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Have you ever said yes to someone, committed to going to a party, or told a salesman you are interested when you really are not?

For guys, it gets back to that moment when the phone number was given.

Sometimes in the case of option (a), there just was no intention there to begin with. My advice is to not get caught up and get angry with the person, it's a wasted emotion in my opinion.

Let them worry about what they have done, and chances are they won't feel too good about it.

So what about when they changed their mind?

We in the case of option (b), guys describe it as a feeling, an emotion that changed in the meantime.

The good point here is, if they lose enthusiasm in the meantime, it was better than dragging out a few dates and wasting everyone's time.

The bad news is, of course, the date book remains empty.

I say we have to move and make the best of our lives. I know it's easy for me to say, but really I do see a lot of wasted energy on what is not going to work, to the detriment of improving what does work.

So practice letting it go, and try and concentrate on other aspects of this site and get even better at flirting and attracting men.